“I told her not to cross that line, but she did it anyway! Why won’t she respect my boundaries?!”
Here’s the thing that most people get wrong about boundaries—they aren’t a warning sign you post. They are a commitment to your future behavior when a line gets crossed.
The first boundary you ever have to hold is the one on the INSIDE.
If you’re having difficulty getting people to respect your boundaries, give this short 2 minute video a watch. And let me know what you think afterward.
Remember, boundaries work when you exercise them. It’s not always easy, but if you build the muscle of doing it, it will get smoother over time.
You’re a powerful badass.
